You never realize what a gift it is to be able to tell the ones you love goodbye. I did not realize the gift of goodbye until my sister and niece were violently and swiftly taken from me in October 2007. They were not given the chance to say goodbye or tell the people they love how much they meant to them. Never take for granted you will be given another day. If you love someone don't let the sun go down without letting them know, it may be the last chance you ever get. Take it from me not in a million years did I think I would never see my beautiful sister and niece alive again. Life is all to fragile and precious, it is fleeting and may be gone in the blink of an eye. Settle your disagreements, love hard and forgive often including yourself. Have no regrets, just life experiences that you learn and grow from and when you come to the end of your life you can go in peace. In the end all that matters is that you lived up to your potential, accomplished what you set out to accomplish, made sure your family and friends knew you loved them. If you can do this then your life was certainly purposeful and worthwhile.

it will be hard to explain on english but i will give my best,
last october my father died after a hard disease,two mounth
before he died i know that he will die,doctors told me that he
have only 2-3 mounth to life.I don't know if the doctors told him
the same but when i looked him...i know that he knows...this is
very hard you know that somebody who loves you very much
and you love this person also very much...will die...i could not
believe in doctors words because for me it whas impossible or
i want not to believe in this words and he died without i saying
to him...goodbye
i'm sure that he watch for me know from heaven...i missing him
very much,very much

on the end i can only say next words:

live everyday like it will be you last day,enjoy in every moment,
be happy,smile and stay positive !